What do you reply when someone just says hey?

When someone just sends you "hey," you have two solid options. You can match their energy and say hey back, then add a question to get things moving. Or you can skip the pleasantries and jump straight into something interesting.

Ask about something from their profile, share something funny, or throw out a playful would-you-rather question. The worst move is replying with just "hey" back and nothing else because then you are both stuck.

If you want the conversation to go somewhere, someone has to bring the energy. It might as well be you. Think of it as an invitation to set the tone however you want. A little effort here goes a long way toward making the conversation actually fun.