How do you start a conversation on Tinder?

The best Tinder openers reference something specific from their profile. Look at their photos and bio for details you can comment on or ask about. If they have a travel photo, ask about the trip. If their bio mentions a hobby, bring that up.

The key is showing you actually looked at their profile instead of copy-pasting the same line to everyone. Avoid starting with just "hey" or "hi" because it puts all the pressure on them to carry the conversation.

A specific question or a playful observation gives them something easy to respond to. Keep it short and casual. You are starting a conversation, not writing a cover letter.

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